PARIS IN PHOTOS…

I took a couple of head shots while I was in Paris because I wanted to. The rich history and beauty of this city made me want to do this. With being one of the most popular cites in this world and a high fashion market, I wanted to pretend I was in a magazine. My roommate told me that I literally looked like I was in a GQ spread. Hey, sometime you have to have it get to your ego just to boost your self confidence, right? Hope you like them. Enjoy 🙂

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MERCI PARIE

 

CONTINUER – KEEP MOVING

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I got off the metro not knowing where to go. The Concierge at the hotel told me to get off of Châtelet because that is the middle of everywhere in the city. There were about thousands of people at the metro station when I got off. As I went up the escalator it was a complete maze. Everything stated in French. It almost reminded me of Penn Station in NYC, but at least I understood what the signs meant. Thanks to my senior year in high school, I visited Montreal with my Student Government group and I remember “Sortie” which means exit. So I followed the “Sortie” signs and the sign that looks like a guy running eager to get out (coincidence). As I looked lost, a beautiful young African girl with a french accent asked me if I needed help. And I asked her “where do I go?” She pointed in a direction and said “continuer” which meant “keep moving.” So I went that direction and was turning left, turning right, going up the stairs, and down an escalator, I finally saw daylight. The smell of fresh air and cigarette smoke was very appealing to me compared to the common urine smell inside any typical metro or train station.

PARIS METRO SORTIE

By the time I got outdoors, I had no idea where to go. I was still lost. it was like any typical city. I’ve been to a lot of the major cities in the U.S. and grew up in San Francisco, so walking out of the metro station was typical for me compared to walking out of the BART station on Embarcadero when I used to work for the radio station. But it’s different when everything is in a different language other than english, and especially when you do not know where you are. Back at the hotel, the Concierge offered to hand me a map, but I declined only because I wanted to figure my way around. Same thing happened in Madrid, I did not want a map, and I got lost there which was great. I prefer to walk around in a city I have never been to and get lost because I know I can figure my way around, and eventually get back to where I started. Because at that starting point, you know that you were never lost after all. Especially in a beautiful city like Madrid.

So I continued my way around the city, and my goal was to reach that famous landmark everyone keeps talking about. I figured all I need to do was look up and I could see what I wanted to see in a distance. It was stated that it was the tallest landmark in the world until 1930 when the Chrysler Building in New York City was built. I continued walking a couple of blocks but I really couldn’t see much with taller buildings and overcast skies with temperatures about 12 degrees Celsius, I was hoping that clouds and fog would not cover it but there weren’t that many sky scrapers to tell if tall buildings were covered by fog. About 10 minutes later I finally saw it, so I headed that direction in a rapid movement.

The Eiffel Tower didn’t look like it was that far, so I figure I walk it. But what a beautiful walk it was. The first thing I saw was the Pont Des Arts. And it was true, they were already taking half of the locks down. But it didn’t stop locals and tourists around to add more locks onto the bridge. With how beautiful the city and people are so drawn to falling in love or being in love, the lock and the key represents “Love is the key to the heart,” which is true. I believed it more when I came to this city.
PONT DE ARTS
A couple of blocks down was the Home of Napoleon and across the street the Palais Garnier. After seeing these popular city tourist sights, I was already overwhelmed and it was only the beginning of the trip, and maybe because I was still jet lagged. But it really hit me when I finally reached the Pont Alexandre III, especially with a crepe guy at the corner cooking crepes on his bicycle stand. I would see a lot of Pont Alexandre photos in magazines, engagement pictures, many times on the travel channel, since it is probably one of the attractions people tend to think of when they think of this city.
PONT ALEXANDRE III
So I continued the walk. Dusk was approaching and street lights were turning on. It then started to sprinkle a bit, and I had no umbrella. So i started to walk faster. I reached a point where I had no idea where to go. I turned into a street and literally got lost. As I looked up I couldn’t see the tower anymore, thinking I went the wrong direction. I just started walking towards the ways I remember seeing the tower which I felt was north so I unknowingly went that route. Turning right, turning left, I started to see flash of lights blinking. In about 10 minutes after getting lost, there it was. The sparkling with its lights twinkling blinking TOUR EIFFEL.
EIFFEL TOWER
Over the past couple of months I had to just figure out a lot of things. Certain people knew what I was going through and it took a toll out on me because over the past couple of years I faced a lot of challenges that I never would thought occur. Family member becoming sick, losing close friends over stupid bullshit, but then I realized that it’s a part of life. I felt like I’ve lost and I felt alone. These trips I took the past couple of months I have learned SO MUCH, especially when you go solo. But what this trip to Paris has taught me is that I’ve pretty much have done everything I could. Meaning, being there for family when they need it and trying to save friendships. It all just worn me out. So I had to go my own way, and going down that one road was definitely not for me. So I went the other way. And trying to find my way out of that metro station or figuring out how get to the Eiffel Tower is no matter the journey I’m taking it will strengthen me as I go along. Whether I’m just trying to deal with a family member being sick, losing friends, or even having a hard day at work, it will make me a stronger person. You learn from it as time comes and have to figure it out. You have to remember, I never used a map to try to find my way around Paris. It’s almost as comparison to buying a book on “How to Save A Friendship” or “How To Heal A Family Member” or “Why Did I Get Yelled at For Canceling a Trip Because My Sister Was Ill” you just have to figure it all out on your own, and when you move towards that direction, you’ll eventually understand why.
No matter the direction you take, whether you’re going left, going right, up the stairs, or even decide to take the elevator, or if you think you’re taking the wrong way trying to reach that destination, you’ll definitely see that light at the end. And when you see that light or reached it, you know you’ve overcame that obstacle. Like what the beautiful African French girl or Mademoiselle said, you have to keep moving. Like I said it’s a part of life. You will never get lost. You’ll eventually find your way back.
When I got to the Eiffel Tower the lights started flashing, like the lights you see in Vegas or Time Square. I knew I was going to be ok. Before I left my trip to Paris, a good friend of mine sent me a text, but it was a picture text that states “Those who fly solo has the strongest wings.” Traveling by myself this year made me a strong person. I still fight my battles, but I’m definitely stronger than I was before.

Touch The Sky … Just Fine!

‘FORE THE DAY I DIE, IMMA TOUCH THE SKY. 

GOING TO LIVE MY LIFE, FEELS SO GOOD TO GET IT RIGHT. 

A “YOLO” MOMENT

When you hold everything in, you just have to let it go, go for it. And when you let it go, the feeling is like no other.

Sometimes you just have to let go of those negative vibes and worry only about YOU in life. 

Bye with the negative and ON WITH THE POSITIVE. 

NO MORE NEGATIVITY! 

Take chances. Don’t hold back. 

Don’t worry about what other people think.

If they’re not there for you, then they’re not your true friends. 

No more fakes, on with the real. 

I don’t ever want to hang out with people who are too controlling, they got issues. And you hang with them, you got issues as well. Moving on…

I hate it when people play dumb. That’s not cool. 

If I am going to have to do it all on my own, then that is fine. At least I am happy with my life. 

Being fake, and turning your back on others sucks. But brush it off because, like I said, they have issues, NOT YOU! 

My family is all I need. I DON’T HAVE FRIENDS —> I HAVE FAMILY, AND WE HAVE EACH OTHERS BACKS. 

If it’s holding you back, its not worth it if that is what is preventing you from being happy. 

“You’re focusing on the problem. If you focus on the problem, you can’t see the solution. Never focus on the problem!”

“See what no one else sees. See what everyone chooses not to see… out of fear, conformity or laziness. See the whole world anew each day!” 

Take one step at a time. 

In the end, we regret the chances we didn’t take. 

If you never try, you’ll never know. 

The goal is living life in your own terms. 

Be Bold, Be Daring. 

You win some, you lose some. 

If you win, you will be happy. If you lose, you will be wise. 

Free spirited. 

Being Me, Being Happy. 

I AINT GONNA LET NOTHING GET IN MY WAY. NO MATTER WHAT NOBODY HAS TO SAY. 

FEEL SO GOOD, WHEN YOU’RE DOING ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO. 

GET THE BEST OUT OF LIFE AND TREAT YOURSELF TO SOMETHING NEW. 

GOT MY HEAD STRAIGHT, GOT MY MIND RIGHT. NOT GOING TO LET YOU KILL IT. 

 I WONT CHANGE MY LIFE IM JUST FINE! 

BIG THANK YOU TO PACIFIC COAST SKYDIVING SAN DIEGO!!!!

http://www.pacificcoastskydiving.com

BITCH DONT KILL MY VIBE!!!” 

NUMB

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I SHOW THAT SMILE

I DANCE MY LIFE AWAY

PEOPLE THAT KNOW ME

JUST CALL ME CRAY

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I GIVE YOU HUGS

I MAKE YOU LAUGH

BUT NO MATTER WHAT

I HAVE YOUR BACK

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YOU DO NOT REALLY KNOW

THE FEELING I HAVE

OF BEING LOST

OR TAKING A JAB

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GOOD AT HIDING IT

BUT IT HURTS INSIDE

JUST KNOWING

YOU MAY NOT BE MY SIDE

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BEEN NEGLECTED

EVERYTHING IS GONE

NOW RUNNING SOLO

AND JUST CARRYING ON

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STILL SHOWING THAT SMILE

NOT LETTING IT GET TO ME

GOING OUT ON MY OWN

JUST WAIT AND SEE

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STILL BEING ME

IN THE BEAT OF A DRUM

AND TAKING AWAY

THE FEELING THAT IS NUMB

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LIKE THEY SAY

EVERYTHING IS OK

JUST GO ABOUT

AND SHAKE IT OFF ANYWAY

RAY RUBIO 

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GETTING LOST.

WANDERLUST 

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“Sometimes you just need a break in a beautiful place alone, to figure everything out.”

When you need some time to get away, the best way to do it is going into a city you never been to.

I decided to take an international quick getaway somewhere i’ve never been outside of the U.S. With a lot going on I felt that it was time I needed to go somewhere for some R&R, and since traveling is my therapy I needed to jetset.

MADRID ESPAÑA

The vibrant city reminds me of every other metropolis but with flavor and culture. The food, the music, the people, their style really intrigued me before I even visited.

I stayed in a hotel which was a 15minute bus ride outside of the city. I didn’t bother to use a map, but instead asked the concierge what was the easiest way to get into the city. And he told me by bus. I took the 133 which took me right into the city and it brought me into the middle of the area. As I took the bus into the city, I got to see the neighborhoods, and even Colegios as I was on my way into the city.

The bus took me into the middle of the Centro de Madrid, the busy part and major tourist attraction where all the gift shops and shopping is done. I walked everywhere, figured how to get to places on my own by foot. Without using a map, i spoke with the locals, and asked where the suggested places to eat, drink, go to clubs, listen to music, have a cafè and to also relax.

I tend to go into places where the locals go to rather than the major tourist attractions were just to get a better feel of the history and culture of not only the city but the country as well. The madrileños love where they are from, and the Spañiards are proud of their country. They take care of themselves, they have the best food, they love music, and they take in everything that their country has to offer.

I literally had no idea where to go. But walking by foot I was able to find the most beautiful streets, architecture, and the lively culture of the city and was very overwhelmed in a good way. I had to take everything in and be in the moment.

When you get lost you just keep going, figure things out on your own especially when you’re in a different country alone, and Madrid helped me to find a way into seeing what a beauty that this world has to offer. You put all the issues aside and just take in the moment. There are times in our lives where we need a break, and this one was needed. I regained and was able to find myself.

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STREETS OF MADRID
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STREETS OF MADRID
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ARCO DE VICTORIA/TOWER OF MONCLOA
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PALACIO DE MADRID
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SAN JERONIMO DE REAL

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PLAZA MAYOR

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GETTING LOST

GRACIAS ¡MADRID!

CANCÚN 2015

SUMMER IS HERE! What better way to kick off Summer by going to Mexico, better yet CANCÚN. Located in the south east coast of Mexico surrounded by the caribbean sea and the gulf, this exotic location attracts tourists all over the world because of its breath taking white powdery beaches and fluorescent blue beach water.

Famous for it’s spring break getaways, you can actually go to Cancún for a quick getaway and some relaxation time. That was the point of my trip. With the three days i was there there was not so much I wanted to do but hang out at the beach, drink a couple of cocktails and getaway from the hustle and bustle of the big metropolitan. But since it is now officially summer 2015, I wanted to go somewhere exotic, and so I did. The one thing I regret not doing was checking out the mayan historical sites such as the Coba and Chichen Itza.

This was a trip that I needed to getaway for a couple of days, and Cancún is a great city for it. Check it out.

(Video Blog will be added soon onto my youtube and will be posted on here.)

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